He’s Just Not That Into You

Hey guys! After observing what has been happening in my circle of friends (and their friend’s friends), I have decided to share with the ladies a few tips on how to tell whether a guy is just not that into you. This will save you from a lot of embarrassment and being the most talked about avatar on the grid.

Lingerie: ~Blacklace~ Anais: White Lace Set
Hair: enVOGUE HAIR – Beyonce (free gift at HF 2017)
Jewelry:
Chop Zuey: Cote Sauvage Wht Necklace (@ Designer Showcase)
Chop Zuey: Papillon Texture Change Rt Palm Ring (@ eBento)
Prop: Exposeur – The White Rooms
Makeup:
Studio Exposure –  S.E CATWA RED RAIN LIPGLOSSY
Pink Fuel –  CATWA Eyeshadow – Sugar Rush

 

5. They are distracted when talking to you.

Now, there is a difference between taking 10-20 minutes to respond and taking a minute or so to respond. It’s also one thing if that happens every once in a while, and they explain to you what is happening ( someone in RL needs to be addressed, or they work in SL on call). But most of the time you can tell the difference. Unless you just need a lot of attention. Then sorry, I can’t help you 😛

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The perfect gift for your Second Life Valentine

As we get closer to Valentine’s Day, we may be looking for that perfect gift for that special someone. Chop Zuey came out with a new release that I think fits the bill. With its multi layered necklaces and numerous options for customization, anyone who gets to wear this will look great as well as unique.

 

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A Bellini Makeover

So…how do you get ready in the morning?

Styling Credits

Lingerie: ~Blacklace~ Bellini: White Lace & Violet Ribbon Baby Doll
Skin: [PXL] JADE SK Terre MEB C2
Hair: Magika– Never (hud 3)
Nails: Nailed It – Prim Nails – Raw Nostalgia Set

Makeup:

[PXL] JADE SK Eyebrows: Blonde (tattoo)
[PXL] Moles Medium (Tattoo)
[PF] Lipstick <Light> – Shine (pink) (group gift – check out my previous posts for the rest of the colors!)
~Oceane~Bardot ES Noire

Poses: Dutchie
Location: Manor Suites
(skydome)

7 Group Gifts in 7 Days!

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Indyra Originals is having a grand re-opening of their mainstore. The new build looks great – it looks sleek on the outside, and on the inside it’s easier to look for what you need. There is even a lounge area where you can sit and cam shop! ^^

 

This is the group gift from Friday – Angeline in Blush color. Actually, I was able to pick it up just now, so if you hurry you still may be able to get this pretty dress. What is not shown here is the flower neck corsage. I can see myself using it in a variety of ways – don’t you just love accessories? 🙂

See you at Indyra’s!

 

Styling Credits

Skin: -Glam Affair – Mokatana – Jamaica 06 F
Hair: “”D!va”” Hair “Judy” (Type A)(Citrine)
Dress: Indyra Originals Mesh: Angeline Gown: Blush 

Makeup:
[PF] Lipstick <Dark> – Shine (pink) (current group gift)
~Oceane~Bardot ES Noire

Earrings: Finesmith Laetitia earring  Platinum
Slink Female Feet (AvEnhance) – High
Pose: Manifeste
Location: The Cyprian Garden

Advice for Second Life Newbies

The Plastik – Flourish Outfit (Cailin Dress)

Hey guys! Finally I have a small break from rl classes, so I have more time to blog ^^ Two things for today – this awesome dress is part of the Flourish Outfit at The Plastik for 50L Friday. The second thing is that Berry’s latest challenge asked us to “List 5 pieces of advice you would give to a newcomer that has just joined Second Life.

1. Think about what you want to do in Second Life, and then go seek it out – don’t be afraid to look for new opportunities.

I think that’s a big part of why newcomers don’t get it – SL doesn’t have objectives; just those that you set for yourself. There are so MANY things you can do in SL, such as..

  • Shopping
  • Relationships
  • Families
  • Exploring
  • Music (playing or listening)
  • Dancing (or dancer)
  • Photography
  • Real estate (business)
  • Homeowner
  • Driving vehicles
  • Community Roleplaying
  • Friendships
  • Scripting
  • Services
  • Building
  • Designing
  • Fashion modeling
  • Adult activities
  • Machinima
  • Writer (blogging/magazine/newspaper)
  • Entrepreneur
  • and more!

No one should ever be able to say that they are bored if they are new to SL….it’s impossible! 😀

2. Don’t get caught up in other people’s drama.

I’ll give you a clue – if someone has “No drama” on their profile, chances are they run into a LOT of drama. It’s a given that most people don’t like drama – it’s draining, and SL goes way too fast time-wise to get caught up in that. So if someone has to explicitly say that…chances are they attract trouble. If your circle of friends are fighting, always try to seek the truth and don’t take other people’s point of view blindly.

3. Read blogs, magazines, newspapers, videos, social media, etc about Second Life to learn more about it and to keep up with the latest news. Chances are you will discover something new, and can use it to your advantage. Plus, you will look knowledgeable to your friends, and they can count on you to keep them informed.

4. Get involved in SL by participating (work or volunteer) at a place of business or organization. I learned so much because of SL, and I was able to apply rl experience in SL as well. All of this boosted my confidence significantly.

5. Keep an open mind and positive attitude. Some people bring in their rl negativity to SL. Everyone has different experiences, so try to learn something from them.

 

Styling Credits

Dress: :[P]:– Cailin Dress-Cross // Flourish (only 50L today!)
Skin: -Glam Affair – Mokatana – Jamaica 06 F
Hair: /Wasabi Pills/ Lisa Mesh Hair – Black coffee

Makeup:
[PF] Lipstick <Deep> – Shine (pink) (current group gift)
Eyeliner: ~Oceane~Bardot ES Noire

Feet: Slink Female Feet (AvEnhance) M – High
Tattoo: [White~Widow – NORMAL TAN] Les Fleurs Du Mal
Pose: Manifeste

Your Avatar’s Private Life Challenge

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I thought this meme would be fun to do…what does your avatar do after you log out?

Well, earlier, I had taken the following photo – very glam and in style. Then I heard someone whisper in a sad voice,

But…why do the pants have to be so tight…and the heels so high?

I thought I was imagining things. So I went home and log out of Second Life. But little did I know…

Yes! Finally I can get out of this clothing!. Beauty is pain, my foot! And speaking about my foot…if I didn’t soak and lotion my feet every time SHE logs off, I would have the most painful feet ever! Have you seen pictures of people who wear high heel shoes all the time? It’s just not normal!

So let’s see…I’m going to wear….what can I wear in this closet…oh yes! I will wear this baggy shirt…and these pants. You would think they would be sweats, right? Well, even my sweats are tight! Who does that, anyway?

After washing all of the product in my hair out, I think I’m just going to jam my hat on my head and head out somewhere. NO, I will not be going shopping. I don’t even LIKE shopping all of that much. Do you know how many unopened boxes that I have in my inventory which contents have never seen the light of day? I can open my OWN store from this inventory and make a killing off sales.

I don’t mind my nails…a girl has to treat herself every once in a while. But all of this makeup has to go! Ah…a clean fresh look is always in style.

Now what to do? I know! I’m going to lay out on the couch, eat sugary snacks, and doze off watching movies. I NEVER get to rest anymore…sigh.

The next day when I log on, my avatar is right where I left her, even dressed the same, although she looks…hmm…I can’t put my finger to it. It’s like with my cats Snowflake and Diamond – those two always get into mischief. Hey, maybe I’ll talk about what they do while I’m away next time 🙂

Styling Credits

Skin: [Pink Fuel] Alyx <Latte> – Natural/Eye A (dkbrow)
Hair: TRUTH HAIR – Jolene – Browns01
Shirt: ISON – oversized top (emerald)
Pants: coldLogic trouser – eise.taupe
Nails: Candy Nail #FP006 Clear Glitter French Pink
Pose: Exposeur

Carmen’s Escape

carmen_003Carmen’s Escape – taken at The Rose Theatre and Art Gallery

Hey guys! Belle from Chop Zuey came out with a terrific group gift, so I wanted to share it with you all.  As some of you may know, recently Chop Zuey opened up their sky boutique at the Chop Zuey sim, with a nice variety of dresses. When I went to visit, my reaction was, “How does she do it?”  I won’t show you any photos of the build – you will just have to go see for yourselves 😉

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Carmen’s Escape in Ocean is the current group gift at Chop Zuey. I’m happy because blue is my favorite color, and how many stores do you know give out fabulous clothes AND matching jewelry? Carmen’s Escape comes with the dress, gloves, fascinator, jeweled belt, necklace, and earrings. The glove details are excellent – both jewels and feathers make up the gloves. The accessories would look great in a mix-and-match with other outfits.

Until next time – happy shopping!

Styling Credits

Outfit + jewels: Chop Zuey –  Carmen’s Escape Ocean
Skin: al vulo– Ramona* peacock dark brow sunkissed
Hair: Donna FloraLIA hair brunette
Shoes: N-core SENSE 2 “Bleu”

Makeup:
[mock] Ethereal Eyeshadow
[PF]  Lip Lustre – Berry Bonbon
Miamai_Catwalk Lashes_Glitter 01

Pose: Corpus